Slow Fashion

Do Not Shame Anyone For Not Buying Ethical.

This post is for those who are ethically minded or for those who try to be. I wrote a post a few months ago where I stated that I will choose to buy ethical items first before second hand because I want to support ethical companies as often as possible. On my journey to living a more caution lifestyle, I vowed to only buy new clothes ethically made or second-hand. I would casually buy second-hand because they were cheap and gave me the same feeling I would get from buying fast-fashion without supporting the companies. When I did a 3-month challenge this summer of not buying new clothes, I realized I wasn’t helping the garment workers by not buying anything. That’s what lead me to be more mindful to shop ethical first. Buying things that support an individual and gives them a livable wage is important to me.
I want to inspire others to rethink their purchases and who is being affected by it, however, I don’t want to my desire to live more ethical to not intimidate and shame someone when they aren’t able to live ethically.
When I was watching the Financial Diet video, 8 Financial Decision You Should Never Be Ashamed Of. Chelsea Fagan said that one should not feel ashamed when you have to buy fast fashion brands. She did acknowledge the problems fast fashion creates and how buying better-made clothes will last longer. With that being said, some individuals don’t have the privilege to buy ethical, good equality clothes, or have the luck to get an amazing well quality outfit from a secondhand store (secondhand shopping can be a hit or miss). I was not blinded to that fact but hearing Chelsa say that no one should shame another for buying fast fashion, made me have more realization of my own privilege to buy ethically made clothes. I do know that buying fast fashion, doesn’t make someone a terrible person, they are just someone on a budget- should they give up eating a meal to buy a shirt for $85? NO! I do know for many mommies out there, ethically made kids clothes seem like a waste because their little ones will grow out of it quickly. I know ethical living is hard. I dream of wanting more clothes from my favorite Fair Trade companies but stop myself because of my budget. And although I do believe being aware and buying ethical when possible can make a difference (slowly), I also know buying ethical isn’t going to erase the world’s problems.
Elizabeth L. Cline author of Overdressed said in her book, “Let’s talk about price. I’m not going to make a big argument that everyone should go out and overhaul their socks, underwear, and T-shirt drawer and buy slow fashion basics and underthings unless of course you can afford to and want to. Nor will I tell you to start putting your five-year-old in pricer, locally made fashion, only to have her outgrow it in a few months” (pg. 215-216). Cline interviewed, researched, and investigated the different parts of the garment industry to help readers know who is making their clothes and the impact of cheap fashion. However, I was encouraged by the end of the book when she said she’ll never tell anyone to buy slow fashion. Cline personally made the choice to buy more classy and well quality pieces, make some of her own clothes, and even will occasionally buy from fast fashion complains. She’s mindful of reducing her impact the way she can through buying less but will not preach to others to do the same.

Shelbi from Shelbzleee (YouTuber of eco and ethical living) said in one of her videos, to focus on your own habits, not the habits of others. I chose to only buy my new clothes from companies I believe match my ethics, and I buy secondhand when I’m not able to afford those clothing pieces. However, if you are unable to have the chance to do either of those things, I understand. Trying to find a good secondhand piece is a risk and if you are someone who isn’t lucky to get something great, don’t worry. If you can’t afford ethically made clothes or anything ethical, again no shame. Hopefully, those around me are encouraged to think more ethical if they can. Everyone is thinking what is best for them and their situation, whether that’s the mom with 3 kids, college student, someone trying to start their career and pay off debt, don’t break your budget because of a t-shirt. We are all trying to survive and no one should be shamed when they are trying to do what they can, with what they have.